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Researchers investigate the intricacies of child and stepparent relationships

By Staff Writer

Many children, especially teens, struggle to maintain positive relationships with their parents as they develop into adults. These familial difficulties may become even more troublesome when divorced parents remarry. In a recent study published in the Journal of Marriage and Family, researchers identify six main patterns of relationships between kids and their stepparents.

The investigators said that children accept the adult as a parent, like them from the time they are introduced into the family, are hesitant to accept them, experience mixed feelings about the new parental figure, reject them or simply coexist.

Study findings showed that kids base their stepparent relationships on the perceived benefits that the adult can provide, such as financial or emotional support. Stepchildren also consider the older individuals' behaviors and opinions when creating their initial judgements of their mothers' or fathers' new spouse.

The researchers noted that biological parents should not be alarmed if their kids do not accept their new partners right away, since these relationships sometimes require much time and effort.

Children who act out or display negative behaviors because they reject their stepparents may benefit from attending boarding schools. Here, they can spend time away from their homes, which may help them reevaluate their emotions.

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